What's Love Got to Do With It?
All You Need is Love
I think the Beatles had it right.
All any of us really needs is love.
After all, real love (the kind of love that Leaders of LIGHT possess!) is the one true transformative force that has the power to heal hurts, resolve conflicts, inspire courage, and put the needs of others first.
In fact, just telling someone that you love them can reinforce the bond in a relationship, provide emotional reassurance and security, and improve a person’s overall well-being. It also goes a long way toward strengthening the important feelings of trust and appreciation.
Yet, as powerful as love is, for some strange reason it’s awkward (total understatement!) to say the words “I LOVE you.”
And that’s a tragedy on a grand scale because telling others that you love them is a POWERFUL experience for both the giver and receiver.
The Power of Saying “I Love You”
Saying the words “I love you” can have a profound impact on all those around you.
In fact, here are five documented benefits of saying these three most powerful words in the English language.
1. Saying the words “I Love You” strengthens your relationships.
Saying “I LOVE you” reinforces your connections and reminds everyone around you that you are there for them (which is exactly what builds trust and loyalty!).
2. Saying the words “I Love You” improves others’ well-being.
Hearing words of love and appreciation lifts people’s spirits, provides a sense of value, and helps everyone better navigate life’s challenges with more resilience.
3. Saying the words “I Love You” provides reassurance and security.
Regularly hearing “I love you” can provide a sense of security in your most cherished relationships (which helps others feel more confident and less stressed!).
4. Saying the words “I Love You” fosters emotional healing.
For someone who has experienced a past hurt or unkindness, being on the receiving end of genuine care and concern can be a positive force for healing and help the person see the good in others.
5. Saying the words “I Love You” creates a positive impact.
Never forget: Your words of love have a ripple effect, inspiring others to share kindness and love in their own lives.
Unfortunately, right now, everyone wants a piece of it. And the fastest way to obtain it is through the use of your digital devices.
Here Are 31 Statements that Say “I Love You”
1. You matter to me.
2. I feel energized when I spend time with you.
3. You bring out the best in me.
4. I feel safe sharing whatever is on my heart with you.
5. You inspire me to be a better person.
6. I really appreciate you.
7. You are one of the most amazing gifts I have ever received.
8. I always learn something from you.
9. Your honesty and insights mean the world to me.
10. Your thoughtfulness is a delight to receive.
11. Even when I’m not with you, I remember all the kindness you have given me.
12. When I see you, I know good things are about to happen.
13. You are the one person I could sit next to and not say anything and know that everything is right in the world.
14. The way you handle our differences makes me want to be a better person.
15. You always encourage me.
16. I’m thankful to have you in my life.
17. I could go anywhere or do anything with you—it’s always going to be good.
18. I trust you.
19. Knowing you gives me courage.
20. The world is a better place when I am with you.
21. I appreciate your wisdom and guidance.
22. I lose all concept of time when I am with you.
23. If something serious happened to me, you’re the first person I would call.
24. You are so generous in spirit.
25. I hear your voice even when we are not in the same place.
26. I feel connected to you even when I cannot see you.
27. I feel refreshed and renewed around you.
28. Whenever I see a photo of us together, I smile.
29. Your smile makes me smile.
30. I can be “me” when I am with you—I hope you feel the same way.
31. I love you. I LOVE you. I. LOVE. YOU.
Leading with LIGHT
The final words that John, Paul, George, and Ringo (yes, the Beatles!) ever said to us were:
“In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.”
This Thanksgiving, say the words.
Say the words.
Say. The. Words.
We wish you all a terrific Thanksgiving—one that’s filled with gratitude and joy.
You are loved!
Until next time: See LIGHT, Be LIGHT, and Spread LIGHT.
PS. Stream the Beatles’ 1969 masterpiece Abbey Road and prepare to have your hearts filled and your minds blown!
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